ON PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS AND FAILURES.

TO AWAKEN IS TO LET GOD COME FIRST IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS.TODAY AM WILLINGLY TO LET GOD COME FIRST  IN ALL MY RELATIONSHIPS. Many of our relationships are built on having our own needs come first. They are built on scarcity  where the illusions of love is a bargain or a trade,and they tend to end up as love/hate relationships.                a holy relationship on the other hand is where two people come together to experience a whole relationship,believing in the abundance of love,without possessions,judgments ,resentments,suspicious,lack of mutual trusts ,respect for each other  and lots of abuses.They join their wills as one to be directed  individually by their inner self consciousness,to have and to hold in mutual consensual agreement.                                                                  TODAY I WILL NOT GET PEOPLE TO LIKE ME BY PLEASING THEM.-FOR LOVE AND PLEASING ARE NOT THE SAME THING.                                                 Rather then try to win a popularity contest,it is more loving for ourselves and others when we are honest in all our communications.In trying to please other people,we become "unreal" by shading our true feelings,which often emerge later in  a hostile form.It is therefore our honesty that allows our love to flow freely.                                                                                   PERHAPS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTIONS WE CAN ASK OURSELVES IS:               ARE MY WORDS GOING TO BRING ABOUT,JOIN OR SEPARATION?                                                                         LET ME REMEMBER THAT THE PURPOSE OF MY  RELATIONSHIP IS FOR JOINING.                               Many times our statements and questions to others are communications that attack and separate.Let us begin all our conversations with the intentions of  experiencing joining with others.                                                      EVERY MOMENT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO EXPERIENCE LIFE THROUGH THE CREATOR S LOVE. TODAY I WILL LET GO OF TRYING TO GET OTHER PEOPLE TO FIT INTO MY MOLDS FOR THEM. The best way to navigate THROUGH LIFE IS  TO GIVE UP OF ALL OUR CONTROLS.                                    TODAY I WILL TAKE A LEAP IN FAITH AND LET THE VOICE OF LOVE GUIDE MY LIFE.                                 We try to control others,when we feel "insecure" about ourselves.When we let go of try to mold others into the shape we would like them to be,we learn to trust and have faith and feel better,peaceful and secure about ourselves. For love requires no control our power "over" but power "with" something or some one.                                                                                           RELATIONSHIPS FAIL WHEN WE TRY TO "WRITE" SCRIPTS FOR THEM,I WILL EXPERIENCE PEACE EVERYTIME I TEAR UP THE SCRIPT I HAVE WRITTEN FOR ANOTHER PERSON.                                                                             Our egos continue to tell us that our job in a relationship is to "change" the other person,so that she or he will behave in way that meets our approval.   So we go through life,trying  change others and end up frustrated and in conflict because of our lack in success. When we awaken we recognize that we are here in this world to love one another and not to "trade" or change each other. Today let us carefully ,watch ourselves to see if we are writing scripts for others. If we are we can tear up because we want to experience peace.