FORGIVING OUR PARENTS

FOR MOST OF US THE PEOPLE HARDEST DO FORGIVE IS OUR PARENTS.                                                                 'AM WILLINGLY TO FORGIVE MY PARENTS TODAY"                                                                                                   Whether dead or alive is possible to forgive our parents totally for whatever harm we think they did to us.To forgive ,does not mean to agree with or support  their behavior. It simply means a willingness to live in the present ,by letting go of the past.                           It may be helpful to remember that regardless of what we "think" our parents may have done to us,and no matter how repugnant their behavior might have been,it is just possible that,if we had the same upbringing,and life experiences that they did,we might had behaved  similarly. It is possible to believe that our parents DID and TRIED the best,they could,to raise us up! unless,they have completely abandoned us,with no good reasons. It is possible to believe that our parents did the "best" job,they knew how to do,based on their own often miserable and hurtful ,life experiences. it takes a saint to change diapers at night,to stay waked all night nursing and consoling a crying baby, it is easier if we have our own mat to which to do our prayers in ,to sleep and live in .then to raise up a family. Therefore,judge not your parents,who through sacrifice,and failure,brought you up,even if they have committed mistakes it is just humans that they did mistakes. Because their job as parents,although joyful is not always a bed of roses.