KEEPING AWAY FROM BLAME FINDING AND SELF GUILT

AWAKENING OCCURS WHEN WE RECOGNIZE THAT THERE IS NEVER ANYONE TO BLAME.               TODAY I CHOOSE NOT TO BLAME OTHERS OR MYSELF.                                                                                 Have you ever thought about how much time is consumed each day with blaming others? the world we live in seems to have a popular belief that states: if something goes wrong,find someone else to blame. It is helpful to remember that every time we attack we attack another person,we are really attacking ourselves.                                                            Attitudinal healing is based on the premise that it is not people or situations in the past that cause us to be upset.But ultimately our thoughts and attitudes about those people and situations in the present day that cause us distress.therefore i will remind myself that it is only my thought that hurt me                     The things that hurt us in the past is not really hurting us now,What may be hurting us is our thoughts about these things,today,we can recognize that it has been our thoughts that have kept the hurtful past alive.                 What cause us to lose our peace is  not other people,but our own thoughts,judgments and attitudes toward them..When we take responsibilities for our own thoughts,the world we see will begin to change.                     MOST OF US ARE NOT TOTALLY AWARE  OF HOW MUCH TIME WE SPEND GOING THROUGH LIFE PLAYING THE "GAME" OF BLAME,                                                                                     TODAY I CHOOSE TO BE A "LOVE FINDER" RATHER THEN  A "FAULT FINDER".                                                               Rather then look at the negative side of life and be a fault finder, we can look at the positive side and be a love finder.Rather then look at darkness in others we can look for the light ,and see that light as  reflection  of our own. We can choose to let go and no longer see any value in play the self destructive game of blame.